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introducing: style challenges + product review

Guess what, kids? I have a new toy!


I stumbled across my mom's camera tripod gathering dust (as in, several inches of - gross) behind her bedroom door the other day. I took it out for some exercise yesterday post-work, and I'm pretty happy with the results.


So I was happily snapping away, playing with the angles and heights of the tripod, and I felt like I was getting some decent shots. I took considerably more photos than usual because the tripod made things so much easier. I definitely had more patience and got some more interesting shots than most of my self-portrait sessions.


And then... I did something weird to my camera settings. Or, maybe the weird coloring of some of these photos is because it got pretty cloudy out while I was shooting. Or maybe it has something to do with the interval shooting. Or maybe my eyeballs are going crazy - whatever it was, the photos looked fine on the itty-bitty LCD screen, so it wasn't until I had transferred them to my laptop that I realized the problem. I was about to go out to re-do the shoot, subbing pumps for the flats, when my camera battery died.


Alas. Truthfully, I wasn't too disappointed - I spent a lot of time on the first set of photos, and didn't relish the idea of setting everything up in the wind again. I did take one photo with the pumps (below), and although I liked the way it looked, in retrospect I feel like they didn't mesh with the laid back, summer-cool vibe I was going for. Maybe next time.


Most of the pieces in this outfit were birthday presents from a very dear friend (I did pick them out, but I adore my friend's thoughtfulness nonetheless) that arrived at my office on Monday. I realize that I have accrued a number of "favorite" outfits and pieces over the last few months, but I quickly developed a love affair with this look, and with the blue sundress in particular. The outfit is primarily composed of items from the F21 Essentials line - a sundress in turquoise, a utility shirtdress in a bright coral, flat taupe sandals, plus a vintage straw purse and some gold jewelry, but the light layering gives the outfit some summer-appropriate depth while the colors give it enough pop to be interesting and the patterned head wrap adds some unexpected zing.


There is also no doubt that I am obsessed with this necklace from NastyGal and this textured gold cuff from Charlotte Russe. I generally favor silver and pewter jewelry, but I find myself gravitating toward anything and everything being paired with these two pieces, and I'm not sure that they would have the same appeal if done in any other color.


The best part of this outfit? The whole thing cost about $60 - the most expensive item is the necklace (NastyGal Sunbeam Necklace - $18). 


You'll notice that I photographed it three different ways - while the combinations for these pieces are infinite, these three looks are my favorites of what I've tried out thus far.

  1. The style in the bottom two pictures in this post is ideal for work; the pink dress buttoned over the blue one makes it office appropriate, and the belt over both dresses gives the silhouette definition. 
  2. The style in the photo just below this paragraph, with the pink dress undone and the belt over only the blue dress, is perfect for spring, when the weather is still a tad unpredictable, and can be too warm or too cool at any given moment. It provides an easily removable/replaceable layer for either case.
  3. The blue sundress by itself (third picture from the top) is pretty much how I plan to spend my summer weekends. Minus accessories, it's perfect for lazing about my currently non-air conditioned, sweltering house; all it really needs for going out is a belt at the waist and some simple gold jewelry.


This might just be a me-thing, but it seems as though whenever I finish photographing an outfit and sit down to publish it, I find one thing I regret about the look. Sometimes it's huge, but usually it's just some small detail I overlooked, an accessory I wish I had added or removed, a pair of shoes I wish I had changed, etc. For this outfit, I really wish I had ironed the shirtdress before wearing it. Another style lesson learned - iron your clothes, especially ones that have just been shipped to you.


In an effort to push myself outside of my usual fashion boundaries and get more use out of my extensive closet, I've decided to start setting monthly style challenges for myself. I have a tendency to fall into a bit of a wardrobe rut mid-month, when I start wearing a repeat of the same basic uniform multiple times a week (tank top, jeans, sweater, done); to avoid repeating this cycle in May, I'm challenging myself to wear a noticeably different outfit every day. I can repeat and remix items, but nothing can be styled the same (or a similar) way twice. I need to finish renovating my wardrobe this weekend, so the challenge is starting on May 1st and I'll post some more info about it then. I'll document my efforts daily through Instagram (username :: frayedthreads) and outfit posts, so be sure to follow along and let me know what you think. If you'd like to join me (I'd love to have you!), post a comment to let me know, and be sure to leave a link to your blog and your Instagram or Twitter handle (mine is @fashion_nerd13) so that I can keep up with your progress. Call me a nerd, but I'm really excited about this!


pieces of the puzzle
Forever 21 Essential Belted Shirtdress (find it here)
This dress is meant to be a stand alone piece, but if that is the only way you can see wearing it, I advise against purchasing it. It's available in two colors, cocoa (a tan color) and coral (pictured); I can't speak to the cocoa color (I haven't purchased it yet), but the coral one is a bit see-through and is too short to be worn without something else underneath it, especially for work. The sides especially come up a bit high. It comes with a matching belt of the same material, but I suggest replacing it with a wide or braided one to add some interest and give the silhouette some definition. The quality seems decent, especially for a Forever 21 "Basic". The seams are straight and seem well done, the buttons aren't immediately falling off, and the material lightweight but sturdy. It does seem to run a bit large; I definitely recommend you check your current measurements and compare them to the model's.
In short: I plan to purchase the second color, and I would definitely recommend it to anyone looking for a basic, utility shirtdress - as long as you're ready and willing to layer it.

Forever 21 Essential Fit & Flair Dress (find it here)
A better name for this dress would be "Flirt & Flair"; I am completely, utterly, inescapably, head-over-heels in love with it. Empire waisted dresses tend to give me a giant, pear shaped figure, but this piece seems to fit and flow and flounce in all the right places. If I were any taller, I would worry about the length, but I'm 5'7" and it hits my leg in just the right spot for casual wear. For work, I suggest layering another dress on top (like I did here) or adding tights or leggings underneath. A wide belt gives more definition to the waist, though a skinny braided one would maintain the playful vibe of the bright color and flirty fit.
In short: I snagged it in turquoise, but it also comes in tangerine, fiery red and navy - and at $7.80 a pop, I definitely plan to pick up all of the other colors. Be wary of the length if you're any taller than me, but otherwise I say this dress is a must for spring and summer.

NastyGal Sunbeam Necklace (find it here)
This necklace was the most expensive piece of this outfit, which at $18 still isn't exorbitant (although it is more than I usually like to pay for a necklace), but I'm not 100% positive the construction is worth the price. I love the NastyGal shop, and I adore this necklace - my concern stems from the fact that the sunbeam charm is hot glued onto the chain. WTH? The beam parts extending from the circle also feel a bit fragile to me, but I've worn it nearly every day for a week now and it hasn't broken (yet - knock on wood), so I'm beginning to feel a bit more at ease.
In short: I'm torn on whether to recommend it, because I really do adore the design. If it weren't for the somewhat iffy craftsmanship, I would insist that you purchase one immediately. If you have the cash to waste (and a hot glue gun), throw it in with your next order and let me know what you think.

also pictured
head wrap :: forever 21
wide brown belt :: vanity
sandals :: forever 21 (similar item here)
gold cuff bracelet :: charlotte russe (similar item here)
straw purse :: vintage (similar item here)


btw
Fellow fashion bloggers and nerds alike, take a moment to check out this awesome sauce article on IFB: the Top 30 Android Apps for Fashion Bloggers - by yours truly!!!
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it's time

[to get my head together]

I went to Wendover Saturday night, and the outfit I wore was gorgeous (comfortable, and it made my butt and legs look fantastic) - unfortunately though, hotel/casino lighting is not very outfit-photo friendly, so I apologize for the the grainy nature and weird coloring of the images.



I really need to go to bed - I have to be up super duper* early for work in the morning, and I've been running on roughly four hours of sleep a night for nearly an entire week (and I didn't get to indulge in my usual weekend coma - I had actual plans outside of my house that did not involve my sister or mother - WHAT WHAT!). But I feel like if I don't post something soon, my poor blog is going to wither and die.


I've been really sick this last week, and with that on top of work and other, more emotional strains, things were just getting to be too much. I needed a tiny break from something, and blogging happened to be the most expendable thing last week. I still feel like I've been pushing myself to the brink with this sleep deprived/underfed/over-medicated/over-caffeinated rotation I've been in recently though. I'm starting to feel like my body is about to collapse in on itself, and let's not get started on my mental state - though I will tell you that I'm so tired I'm starting to hallucinate. Really hallucinate. It's a bit unnerving.


It's time to pull myself together.

So I'm going to start posting regularly again, I'm going to get caught up at work, and I'm going to start writing again. Social interaction will now also be included in this new cycle, though in limited amounts. It was good to get out of town this last weekend, and it was good to spend some time with someone I've missed (vague, I know - you'll live).



I picked up a new clutch for the weekend from Covet Boutique in Tooele, and although I was a bit iffy about it at first, I have since decided that I don't regret the purchase. I love the mix of studs and rhinestones across the front, and it's the perfect size for a night out: slim and sleek, but the length and height gives it some storage space for all of my essentials. I decided to go with the pinky-beige version, but they also carry it in black, and my sister seems to think she needs that one.


Yes, I happen to think a Hershey's candy bar is a Wendover essential.

the outfit:
black tank: maurice's (similar here)
cobalt pencil skirt: maurice's (similar here)
black bow belt: maurice's
black sandals: maurice's (similar here)
necklace: nasty gal (find it here)
earrings: nasty gal (find them here)
gold cuff: charlotte russe (similar here)
clutch: from Covet Boutique

purse contents:
various plastic: ID, debit card (no credit cards in casinos!), player's card, room key
make up: maybelline baby lips lip balm, sephora mineral matte powder, urban decay glide on eye pencil, make up forever concealer & lipstick, diorshow blackout mascara, nail clippers
misc: hello kitty tissues (from forever21), hershey candy bar

*Yeah, I said "super duper". So?
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heels of spring


spring style guide: the heels

There are many people who deem my obsession with footwear to be irrelevant, useless, and a waste of money (like my mother), but the perfect shoe is the foundation of an incredible outfit. The right shoe will not only complete the look, but it will also make you feel better, stand taller and it will leave a hell of a print on the people you meet. Seriously - where would Cinderella be without her glass slipper?

With that in mind, I've taken the time, collected the research, done some comparing and contrasting and rounded up the hottest shoes for the hot weather. What I found was that this year, shoe stores have exploded with new styles of all heights, and it's been impossible to narrow down the list - so I broke it up into two posts. Today we'll cover summer heels, and tomorrow we'll talk about the flats. I've even included three choices (affordable, splurge, and fantasy) with each to help you get started on updating your footwear collection - go forth and shop, my friends!


the wedge
The proverbial summer staple, the wedge is summer you wear on your foot, especially when done in raffia, wood, tribal prints or bright colors. More comfortable than heels because of the added support throughout the whole foot, wedges are the perfect shoe for summer outings like shopping, museums, art galleries, brunch, and pretty much everything in between. They're your best bet for anything and everything not covered by the other shoes in your collection - they're the boots of your spring and summer footwear.


Chinese Laundry Make My Day Natural Linen Wedges, via Lulus.com

the t-strap
For times when you need to amp up the sex appeal, a t-strap heel is your go to shoe. The best part about this design is that it works with any kind of heel - stiletto, chunky or wedge, as long as it has some height to it. The skinnier the heel, the more daring the look (obvs) but the chunky and wedge options are still sexy and great alternatives for those ladies who aren't exactly experts at walking on four inch nails (myself included - and trust me, no matter how sexy the shoe, falling off of it definitely ruins the effect!)


Platform T-Strap Sandal, via Zara.com

the color block
Another shoe that works well with any sort of heel (I prefer the chunky or wedge varieties, myself), this shoe is the one to pair with your black dress/skinny jeans/skirt/pretty much anything to transition it from work day to night out. We all know that color blocking is a major thing this season, but for those of us who are a bit color shy, the color blocked sandal is the perfect way to work a bit of funky edge into one's look without going over the top trendy.


Multicolor DeeDee Heels by Lovely People, via Threadsence.com

the nude pump
If you don't already own a nude pump (WTH woman?!), this is the season to invest in one. While black pumps are always stylish, her nude sister has the magical ability to slim and elongate one's legs - two very desirable traits in a shoe. The lighter color is more spring/summer friendly, and because it's a neutral, it allows the other pieces of your outfit to do the talking (which makes it the perfect shoe for loud, busy ensembles). This is the shoe to slip into when the rest of your ensemble is glitzy, sparkly, or otherwise brimming at the top with gorgeous, because of its ability to blend in and enhance.


Lacey Nude Pumps via Maurice's // see the outfit post here

the chunky heel
Chunky heeled sandals are the perfect balance between the wedge and the stiletto, because "chunky" can mean so many different things. There's skinny chunky, thick chunky, low chunky, tall chunky, tapered chunky - you get the picture. Wooden and suede covered heels seem to be the most popular option for this type, though the styles from there are wide and varied. It can be combined with other trends, such as color blocking and skin toned shades, or kept classic in simple shapes and neutral colors; most can also go from work day to casual afternoon to night out, depending on the outfit and accessories up top. The variety and versatility of this heel makes it my favorite for the season - and let's not forget the comfort factor.

the buy | the splurge | the fantasy

Black Studded Sandals via Kork-Ease // see the outfit posts here & here
Neutral Color Block Heels via Charlotte Russe // see the outfit post here

the springtime boot
Because of the rising temps, boots can be tricky in the spring. While many of us are hesitant to relinquish our boots as winter flees, wearing them on a day that's warmer than 60 can be sweltering. Springtime boots are the perfect compromise; usually ankle or mid-chin height, spring boots/booties are most frequently somewhat cowgirl in nature, though some have laces, wedge heels, or cuffs. 

Note: Wellies, or rain boots, have also been having a moment, but can cause the same issues as regular boots later on towards summer, when warm storms are more common. In this instance, I would advise jelly flats.

in conclusion
If you live in Broke City (like me), you don't have the cash (or the closet space!) to drop on six new pairs of heels all at once (and we still haven't covered the flats!). Seriously, it's okay - don't panic! Personal style is all about doing more with less, getting creative and pushing those fashion boundaries. Invest in a few new pairs that you know you will wear all season, and forget the rest (or buy them on sale whenever you can find them). The most important thing is to buy what suits your personality and individual style, regardless of what the trends are. The suggestions I've listed above are great starting points, and I'd love to see what else you can find and what your spring/summer staple shoes are!

P.S. Don't forget to check back tomorrow night for the flats edition!

P.P.S. Have you entered my giveaway? Hurry - the deadline is April 16th @12:01am tonight!!!

And don't forget to vote for my entry into the Chictopia & Free People Spring Bloom Contest.
Love and hugs for votes!
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get the look

I apologize for the lack of outfit posts this week; the weather and my schedule not been conducive to outside photo shooting. As much as I love the rain, downpours do tend to put a damper on a girl's suede shoes.

So in lieu of outfitted goodness, I'd like to present you with these gorgeous Polyvore collages my little sister has put together of some of my outfits. I have to say, I seriously kind of love her new hobby.

Floral Jen


(Check out the skirt featured here & the pumps here;
get a similar cuff here & blazer here)


Bold Patterns


(Check out the purse featured here & the gold cuff here;
find a similar skirt here & shirt here)

I pretty much have the best little sister in the whole history of the world. If you'd like to get to know her awesomeness a bit better, you can check out her blog here.


P.S. Don't forget to enter my birthday giveaway
We are only 94 entries away from unlocking the final bonus prize! The cutoff is April 16th @ 12:01am, so make it quick! The earlier you enter, the more chances you have to win!

P.P.S. Be a dear and check out and vote my entry into the Spring Bloom contest
Love and hugs for votes!!!
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floral fetish



The florals in my closet seem to be multiplying exponentially, particularly in the form of skirts. I'm sure there is a scientific name for this phenomenon, though I am unaware of it. I prefer the term "floral fetish" anyway; however, upon further consideration, it sounds something akin to tentacle porn.



The bright colors and floral patterns of spring have definitely started to grow on me, and I love the ruffles and salmon pink color of this blouse... but I have already started itching for the darker colors of the colder months again, and the various fall collection photos I've been browsing haven't been helping much.


My incessant yearning for winter style probably contributed to the purchase of several darker floral prints, in black with cobalt blue, grey and pink flowers, as well as a cobalt blue pencil skirt (all of which will be featured later this week, as part of my Parade of Birthday Outfits). Btw, I consider cobalt blue to be a winter color, because I love it so much.



My sister and I wandered up the street a bit for today's photography session, and were rewarded with at least three vehicles honking/gawking, and one new friend who took it upon himself to pull over and introduce himself when he saw us.



This gold cuff and vintage straw bag are absolutely my favorite accessories for this summer. This cuff is the only bracelet I've ever been able to tolerate wearing at work, and I love how ladylike yet playful the purse is.


ruffle tank: maurice's (similar item here)
floral skirt: maurice's (similar item here)
nude pumps: maurice's (similar item here)
straw bag: vintage
gold cuff: charlotte russe

My younger sister, the Princess; and my nephew, the Monster.

If the rest of my life is spent doing nothing but taking care of these two beautiful people, I will be the happiest, most fulfilled person in the world.

P.S. Don't forget to enter my birthday giveaway
We are only 100 entries away from unlocking the final bonus prize! The cutoff is April 16th @ 12:01am, so make it quick! The earlier you enter, the more chances you have to win!


P.P.S. Be a dear and check out and vote this outfit on Chictopia - it's my entry into the Spring Bloom Contest! Love and hugs for votes!!!
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every little bit of me




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designing myself

Happy weekend, blog world! I was fortunate enough to have an early start to mine - my lovely employer gave us Good Friday off. I don't even know what Good Friday is, aside from that it's the Friday before Easter. And I think it has something to do with Passover, though I don't know what that is either.


I haven't been feeling particularly inspired of late; I think it's at least partially due to the overabundance of clothing that is literally spilling out of my closet, drawers and baskets beneath my bed. My wardrobe is in pretty serious need of a purge, but I haven't been able to work up the motivation/energy to get it done. I have two three-day weekends in a row though - maybe after some time to relax, I will finally hop to it.


My short absence from the blog has been primarily due to this lack of inspired feeling. I had hoped that a creative break would allow me to regroup and recharge my imaginative batteries, but alas - I feel no such relief. I feel as though my life has settled into a bit of a rut, and I've been wracking my brain for ways out. I think this is my version of cabin fever, since I typically feel more peaceful during the winter, and spring causes me all sorts of anxiety.


I would love to take a vacation, to go somewhere I've never been, but that would require a bit of time and saving. In the meantime, I need a more short-term, immediate fix for the pricking at my spirit I'm feeling. The insomnia, restlessness, ADD, itchiness - all symptoms that cause me greater problems. The fact that I am up and typing this entry at 5am is an example of such.


Looking over my 25 before 26 list, I'm not sure whether I feel inspired by my progress in the last week, or overwhelmed with what I have left. It's really not a complicated list, since I 'optimized' it; I suppose I've been living in neutral for so long now that shifting into drive and actually getting things done on a personal level feels a bit intimidating. I've checked off four things from list in just a week (two of them biggies), but I still have 18 to go before next Saturday. I can do it - I just have to push myself a bit harder than I have been.

I realize this post is coming off as a bit of a Debbie Downer, but honestly, life isn't all cupcakes and rainbows. I have been working really hard lately, and making a great deal of progress because of it. I'm beginning to see the results of those actions, and it makes me want to work harder. I think my frustrations primarily stem from not really knowing what exactly to do to keep moving forward, from wasting so much of my life screwing around, and from not being able to devote my life and all of my time to my work. While I do enjoy my job and love my co-workers, it's not my dream - and I don't want to spend my life working for someone else's dream. I am so tired of being told that I can't/won't/will never achieve the things I want, and I am so ready to start making people eat their words. I feel like I've finally started on that path, and I'm afraid of screwing it up (again), but I also know that I have to keep going, to keep pushing myself, to keep putting one foot in front of the other, because that's the only way to get anywhere in life. I have to keep moving.


The plan for this weekend:
-Cross a few more things off of my list.
-Implement a few of the planned additions/changes to the blog.
-Take some time to meditate and relax.
-Start on my closet purge.
-Achieve a goal.
-Impress/inspire myself.


I picked up this skirt and blouse on my birthday shopping trip this week. I was supposed to go to SLC next week with my mom but... it fell through. Long story. So I took myself to the local Maurice's and blew way more than I should have to cheer myself up. Shopping provides a (very) temporary cure for my frustrations. I love putting together outfits, even if it's solely for dressing room pleasure. The recent release of Instagram for Android makes it even more fun. I have a therapist - his name is retail.

blazer: Zara
black shirt: maurice's
white floral skirt: maurice's (similar item here)
black chunky heels: kork-ease
necklace: forever 21
hat: maurice's (similar item here)


Are you on Instagram yet? Let's be friends! 
My username is frayedthreads - leave a comment with yours.

have you entered my birthday giveaway? 
We just hit 40 individual entries, unlocking the first bonus prize! Think we can make the second? We need 106 entries - tell your friends, your neighbors, everyone! The deadline is 12:01am on 4/16, so make it quick!
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bold print mixin' vixen


I apologize in advance for the many headless photos featured here; I was taking pictures by myself again today. My sister was smart enough to stay inside - the bright, cloudless sky and downpour of sunshine was deceptively inviting... Upon walking outside in a skirt minus tights, I realized just how freezing it was. My toes were numb several minutes in, and I really just wanted to get a few good full body shots and get back inside before I lost all feeling in my legs.

And speaking of tightless legs... you may need to cover your eyes. I haven't found my tanning lotion yet!



I've mentioned before that I'm rather print shy, but I happened to try this plaid shirt on with this floral skirt by accident a couple of months ago at Maurice's, and was quite pleasantly surprised to find that I rather liked the combination. The pinks of the plaid match perfectly to the pink flowers in the skirt, while the purple and mint of each respective garment contrast just enough to play off of each other without giving one a headache. My sister didn't even realize I had two completely different prints on - it's a soft, subtle blend of floral and plaid in bright, springy colors that oddly matched my mood today.



IFB's project this week (Print on Printed Matter) is to create a mixed print look, and although I've yet been brave enough to wear it in public, I decided this would be the perfect time to photograph the ensemble. The more interesting trends such as intense print mixing rarely find their way into Utah, and I'm old enough now that I no longer enjoy attracting stares of incredulity for the way I dress. Stares of awe, though, those I don't mind so much.


I briefly mentioned my trip to the thrift store with my sister a couple of weeks ago; in addition to the orange purse I picked up to complete my previous print mixing adventure, I also snagged this perfect structured straw bag for $1.50. I love how it's size and build mixes it between a purse and a clutch - it's perfect for summer afternoons of lazing around the park or wandering the city, and the bow woven into the front is the cherry on top.



Straw (or raffia) purses are a perpetual summer staple - they may fade in and out over the years, but they never fully disappear. The newest designs come in all sorts of hot colors and fun shapes, but my favorites are the old school retro bags, like this one.



plaid shirt: maurice's (similar item here or here)
pink lace camisole: maurice's (similar item here)
floral skirt: maurice's (similar item here)
espadrille wedges: maurice's
brown belt: vanity
straw bag: vintage (similar item here)
mocassin necklace: vintage
gold cuff bracelet: charlotte russe (similar item here)

See more of the bathroom garden here, here and my favorite one here.

While you're here, be sure to check out my fantabulous birthday giveaway for the chance to win one a Forever21.com e-gift card!
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